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Build trust and Connect Authtencially.
The ability to read and understand the emotions of others is a core aspect of emotional intelligence that helps us build trust and connect authentically. Research shows, that we share universal facial expressions for seven distinct emotions: Anger, Contempt, Disgust, Fear, Joy, Sadness, and Surprise. Because our faces are the primary way we share our feelings without using words, learning to read these expressions is an incredibly valuable life skill. The goal of this tool is to help you develop the skill of reading others' emotions by actively and compassionately deciphering their facial expressions.
Key Takeaways & Next Steps:
Be Realistic, Not Theatrical
When it's your turn to share an emotion, try to do so as naturally as possible, just as you would if you were experiencing it in real life.
Acknowledge the Difficulty
Connecting with others in this way can be tricky because, from a young age, many of us are taught to conceal or mask our true feelings rather than openly share them.
Embrace Vulnerability
This exercise asks for a bit of bravery, as it requires you to lower your guard and express authentic emotions in a shared space.
Meet the Coach.
Paul Gagnon, ACC ICF Certified Coach | MYcoach. Reading facial expressions is an incredibly powerful life skill, but it asks for a bit of bravery! When you practice this exercise, I want you to remember to be completely realistic—there is absolutely no need to exaggerate your expressions. Connecting on this deep level can feel a bit uncomfortable at first, so please give yourself and your partner an abundance of grace. Keep your observation gentle, and use this tool to safely lower your guard and truly understand the inner world of the people around you! Treat this framework as an extension of our coaching—a daily habit to help you replace reactive stress with cognitive clarity and elevate your leadership presence. Smiles & Coffee, - Paul
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Express Emotion Nonverbally.
The Expresser will read the emotion on their card (such as happy, sad, or anxious) to themselves. Think of a time when you felt this emotion deeply, recalling the memory as vividly as possible. Allow yourself to naturally express this emotion through your face and body language, without speaking. You are welcome to keep your eyes open or closed—whatever feels safest and most comfortable for you.
Are they holding a steady, confident gaze, or are they looking away, perhaps indicating a feeling of vulnerability or anxiety?
Are they smiling genuinely, or are their lips pressed tightly together in discomfort or frustration?
Is the forehead wrinkled in confusion, carrying tension, or raised in surprise or delight?
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